Sometimes love goes missing.

Posted by Candelaria at 2/6/2010 9:29 AM
Categories: Relationships,marriage,Love
Tags: advice about love



Sometimes love goes missing.  When it does – go find it! 

  • Did it get trapped in the pages of yet another book you’re reading?
  • Is it stuck in the keyboard of the computer that’s become an appendage to your fingers?
  • Is it hiding among the kids and their demands?
  • Will you find it at the board meeting or volunteer event you’re at?
  • Is it at the church or the club?
  • Does it live in the television programs you watch so frequently?

Love can go missing not only because of infidelity or major disagreements.

  • It can go missing because of simple neglect – it is easy not to be demonstrative. 
  • It can go missing because you think it is always there and so don’t nurture it, name it, or claim it.
  • It can go missing because it is easy to take for granted ‘cause you think “My love lives here.  It ain’t going nowhere.”

Ha! Ha!  Better think twice.  Love doesn’t have to explode away it can fritter away, eroded by all the other things that life demands.

My advice is to stop all the other things you are doing and do love!

Do love!

Add it to the list and you just might keep the bliss.

 

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  • 2/6/2010 5:20 PM miruspeg wrote:
    Candelaria what a great post.
    How simple life can be if we "Do Love".
    I wandered on over here through Lilly's blog. I thought your comment over there was spot on. And Elizabeth Gilbert's book is sensational.
    Cheers
    Peggy
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    1. 2/6/2010 9:18 PM Candelaria wrote:
      I'm so happy you found me by way of Lilly's  blog.  It's one of my favorite blogs.  So happy that she's back!
      Thanks for leaving a comment.
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  • 2/7/2010 4:58 AM FULANI wrote:
    FANTASTIC WRITING...I'M UP COULDN'T SLEEP 4AM 5AM MENAPAUSE OR SOMETHING.
    ARE YOU INTERESTED IN JOINING A WRITERS GROUP??? I'M GOING TO START ONE. THOUGHTS ARE HIDDEN DEEPLY IMBEDDED IN MY CRANIUM. THEY WANT OUT. THANK YOU FOR WRITING CANDELARIA.....FULANI
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    1. 2/7/2010 10:00 AM Candelaria wrote:
      Sorry you're having dificulty sleeping.  Glad you checked out my blog.  I don't tend to do writing groups any more because I'm too busy writing and working but I'll certainly consider it.  Thanks for commenting.
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  • 2/7/2010 5:32 PM Tehuti wrote:
    Let's be romantic
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  • 2/8/2010 4:38 PM Jim wrote:
    Bravo! Do love.
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  • 2/14/2010 2:16 PM Anali wrote:
    Good advice! Happy Valentine's Day! ♥
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